Quote from: Macabre on August 25, 2014, 07:47:21 AM
Welcome Weezer. It's difficult being diagnosed as an adult, too. I was with sesame and shellfish. My son was dx with peanut as a baby. And treenuts, but he's outgrown them.
The detox thing is not backed by science and is not a standard medical practice for board verified allergists in the US.
It is important to avoid cross intimidation, but avoiding entire food families is typically not necessary. Were chick peas giving you problems before? If something wasn't, then there's probably no need to avoid it now. Y
What you need to start doing is to find brands you trust. Call them. Ask them if they label for shared equipment with peanuts and treenuts. And you need to have a good understanding of how treenuts are processed with other treenuts. If you found peanut free pecans, they may be fine for you, because they are a nut. Neither peanuts nor coconut is actually a nut. But you may want to stay away from all treenuts because of cross contact and especially until you get tested for them, each one.
A coconut is a drupe, btw, and there are others that are: almonds and I think walnuts and pecans.
It can be very scary at first. My son is 16 and what we've found is that it was very hard emotionally when we first realized how big his PA was. Then it for better. It gets worse emotionally after a reaction or another incident (mostly school-related). It goes in waves.
We are one if the families that does eat out. We develop a list of restaurants that is allergy friendly. And we try new ones. And if we don't get a sense that they get it, we leave. Period.
The things we ask about:
-is my allege never cooked on the grill? (If so I don't get grilled things)
-what kind of oil do you use?
-(if it's a safe oil) is my allergen ever fried in the same oil as other fried things, say these fried jalapeños I want to order? (I said that very thing yesterday)
-is my food able to be prepped away from my allergen?
-is there a risk of cross contact? (Restaurants get less defensive with this term than cross contamination)?
-is the chef able to make my food Without using utensils that have my allergen on them? (My worst reaction came from this)
Eating out is not without risk, but we can minimize it. But you should be careful NOT to eat out at Asian restaurants. Just trust me on this. The cross contamination ubiquitous. Woks aren't properly cleaned. And peanut residue has staying power. Avoid the curry takeaways.
Ask lots of questions at Mexican restaurants (peanut flour and peanut oil. Be aware that mole contains either peanut or almond typically).
Avoid ice cream parlors unless they are peanut and coconut free.
Sometimes eating out is just too stressful and not worth it. And it's hard to do with friends when you know you have to have an easy outbid it's not safe.
Again, welcome. I hope you find this a helpful community.